In a world where, unless you live alone, on a deserted island, societal structures, good or bad, rule the roost, we must learn how to construct ourselves in an ever evolving landscape.
You must conduct yourself so that all men seek to be your friend and all fear to be your enemy.
In this way will you go through life happier and less prone to doubt, fear and anxiety.
There are many approaches to this and certainly there is no one size fits all, but conduct yourself in this way you must, if you are to become a man of worth.